Does anyone else obsess?

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Does anyone else obsess?
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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 2:40pm
Does anyone else obsess when thier OP doesn't call right back (or calls late in the day?) I have left 2 vm's for MM today (I'm sure he's busy...) but, my mind starts to wonder and I keep waiting for my cell-phone to ring. I need words of encouragement! I start thinking his W found out, he wants to end it etc. Things have been fine - we talked for a long time yesterday..we typically talk everyday - I just hate it when he doesn't call right back!

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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 2:47pm
I know how you feel. My MM has been very busy at work this past month and I think we've talked all of twice. I know he's busy, but my mind just starts reeling and my imagination kicks in. Hang in there. I'm sure you'll hear from him soon:)

NS

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Registered: 04-16-2004
Mon, 04-26-2004 - 3:12pm
HELLO?
cl-noregretsyet (co-cl of MAS board)
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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 3:39pm
LOL - Can there be two Queen's in this kingdom? How do we get over this????? I'm sure they don't obsess over us (well..maybe they do?)

Sometimes if I don't call him right back, I see his number on my caller-ID an hour later - now, I'm always afraid to do that or I OBSESS he thinks I'm being a pushy broad!!!

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 04-26-2004 - 3:44pm
Hello! Add me to the list!!! LOL! I am sitting here obsessing right now because he hasn't emailed me yet today (and he does every day). I keep wondering if maybe he didn't make it into work or if one of the kids is sick or if he's just sick of me....(lol). If I haven't heard from him by now, I don't think I will today. Trying not to obsess though.......but it ain't easy. KC
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Registered: 04-16-2004
Mon, 04-26-2004 - 3:47pm
We have made plans two weekends running....the weekend arrives and he doesn't call me, email me...nothing.
cl-noregretsyet (co-cl of MAS board)
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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 4:06pm
Ha! If you look up obsessing in the dictionary it says "See Saturday Sister!" Don't worry, honey... he's thinking of you too.
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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 4:06pm
Hi NRY, I am depressed also. Entering 3rd week NC from MM. Most days I am doing okay because I think maybe its for the best. But today, I am feeling down. Maybe once I get home I won't think about him too much. Seems like weekends and weeknights I am good, because I never heard from him then anyways. Take care,

Dusty
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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 4:15pm
Big Hugs NRY!! I'm sure he'll call - funny - MM has done that to me a few times - I never, ever would do that to him!!

BTW - my MM just called. :) I still need to get over this obsession! Can someone sprinkle some fairy dust over us???

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Registered: 04-26-2004
Mon, 04-26-2004 - 4:22pm
I think it's hard not to obsess sometimes, for me atleast. OM is single but I always wonder when I haven't heard from him for a while or he's not answering his phone for a few hours or whatever that somehow he's changed his mind and doesn't want to see me anymore, or he's found a girlfriend who can give him 100%, or that maybe he is mad at me for some unknown reason. I know it's silly of me to think that way but it's my nature, I've always been a worrier. Hang in there, hopefully he's called you back by now!

Soleil

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Registered: 03-26-2004
Mon, 04-26-2004 - 5:33pm
Oh my God, I do the same thing! Like things aren't tentative enough without creating worst-case scenarios in my head! I often feel the same way as you - that if I don't hear back right away, it must be over. And it's so hard to talk about it with the OP, who wants to show how insecure they really are, or how much they really care?

I try not to obsess. Some days are better than others. Hang in there. It passes, right?

Sky

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