Does anyone else obsess?

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Registered: 01-31-2004
Does anyone else obsess?
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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 2:40pm
Does anyone else obsess when thier OP doesn't call right back (or calls late in the day?) I have left 2 vm's for MM today (I'm sure he's busy...) but, my mind starts to wonder and I keep waiting for my cell-phone to ring. I need words of encouragement! I start thinking his W found out, he wants to end it etc. Things have been fine - we talked for a long time yesterday..we typically talk everyday - I just hate it when he doesn't call right back!

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Registered: 02-19-2004
Fri, 04-30-2004 - 11:35am
I'm sorry to hear that he didn't e-mail. I send many hugs your way. I know how devastating it can be when you are waiting desperately for his call/e-mail and it never happens.

I guess I should consider myself lucky for my OM to tell me these things but I can't help to worry.

My M is becoming unbearable and just last night I had a dream about OM which makes me love him more. You know you are so right I should ask him how he feels about me and I should express my feelings to him as well. I'm just afraid to. But I bet he feels exactly as you stated on your reply to me. BTW- your reply put tears in my eyes. Thanks for those wonderful words of yours. You're great!!! And don't ever forget that. I'm so glad I found this board. It's helped me tons to deal with all these emotions. I could not be doing this alone.

Vles, please hang in there honey. We're all with you and I'm sure he'll come around one day, like I said he's probably afraid or doesn't know how to express his feelings. I'm sure he has feelings for you or else he wouldn't bother to contact you and spend time with you.

Much love your way.

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Registered: 04-30-2004
Fri, 04-30-2004 - 3:38pm
me tooo! it makes me want to rip my hair out. i then usually type an email out of frustration that he may or may not get until monday. fridays are the hardest. i am going insane with thoughts of him taking his kids to litttle league this weekend
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 04-30-2004 - 9:37pm
Hi Ducks,

Yes, I do obsess - but not just about whether he will call, it's about *everything*! Well, I used to obsess...now it's more that a part of my brain has given over to remembering, thinking, wondering about him. Constantly. I think I've become accustomed to having him in my head all the time, sometimes in the background, sometimes right up front (and it isn't always easy).

Trust he's thinking of you, too. Try to relax, and enjoy the anticipation!

Meow

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