Does AP Feel Guilty....

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Does AP Feel Guilty....
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Mon, 06-14-2010 - 3:13am

For those who are married or in a LTR: does AP feel guilty about YOUR H or W?


I asked AP this recently; I asked him if he felt guilty about having sex with another man's wife, he said a little bit, but overall, he felt he (my H) deserved it.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 06-02-2010
Mon, 06-14-2010 - 5:02am

well , I think Ap isn't married to your husband , you are. So if you dont feel guilty about your husband why should AP . He is right your husband deserved it. And I always say that he must be a loser to be cheated on like this . Dont you agree ?

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Mon, 06-14-2010 - 8:20am
Yes, occasionally I think he feels guilty. Not in the same way that a MM feels guilt towards his wife (he's single), but overall he thinks my H is a "good guy" and it sometimes bothers him. I think sometimes he's jealous too, but he never lets on about it. I only know because he said something about coming to terms with his jealousy, once.

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Registered: 03-03-2010
Mon, 06-14-2010 - 11:04am
Major guilt oozing all over the place.
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Mon, 06-14-2010 - 1:02pm

"well , I think Ap isn't married to your husband , you are. So if you dont feel guilty about your husband why should AP . He is right your husband deserved it. And I always say that he must be a loser to be cheated on like this . Dont you agree ?"


I agree 100%, and am so glad you share my opinion!

anotherseyes

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Registered: 12-03-2009
Mon, 06-14-2010 - 3:04pm

My AP told me that he's long ago stopped feeling guilty. There's not hot/cold going on with our A.

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Registered: 06-06-2010
Mon, 06-14-2010 - 3:25pm
I am not sure if it is guilty, but thoughts about my AP's H cross my mind sometimes. From what I gather from my AP, he is a nice H, an a great Dad-she actually says that him and could actually be good buddies So I respect her views about him, and try by all means not to talk negative about him. As for her, maybe she does, but never shown that she was guilty about my W.
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Registered: 10-03-2009
Mon, 06-14-2010 - 8:58pm

for both of us, the guilt is there and