Does AP know about this board?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-29-2008
Does AP know about this board?
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Sun, 01-04-2009 - 6:05pm

Wondering how many of you have ever told your AP about this board and your lurking and/or participation?


I'm in the middle of breaking it off with mine, and I've bitten my tounge 1,000 times not to reference what I've learned here.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-17-2008
Sun, 01-04-2009 - 6:16pm

Just the other day we were sitting here together looking over the posts, and as we were scrolling them, he was saying "we've been there, we've been there", etc...


We have been together for so long, and, like you, we have a much different relationship than most people on here, but, we are content were we are, probably because until last year we were both M, and neither of us wants to make that mistake again. We will be together forever, but I don't know that we will ever want to be married. I would like to wake up with him in the mornings, but we wake up in each other's hearts.


I like that he knows about the board because he gives male insight into a lot of things.


mom

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2007
Sun, 01-04-2009 - 6:26pm

Well - I didn't find this board until BF (former AP) and I had been living together for a few months - so yes, he knows all about it.


He had some concerns at first - to him

lightning in my heart

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2006
Sun, 01-04-2009 - 8:00pm
Heck to the naw! This board is for me and my private feelings, I would never want him to come on here and see what I was saying....not that I have anything to hide because I would tell him what I tell you all...but I just think it would inappropriate. Sort of like him reading a private journal that I kept or something.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-22-2008
Mon, 01-05-2009 - 1:19pm
I have nothing to hide from AP. I told him posting here helped me to cope with our LDA and he knows about my girly girls. I sent him a link to a post I wrote about my problems with NC. So in the beginning of our A he sometimes read my posts here and even commented some of the replies I got. He corrected me when I said he has green/brown eyes,saying they're green/hazel :))) Now his company has "firewalled" ivillage (among other sites like YouTube and MSN) and he has not checked the site for at least 8-9 months. Even if he could his work and at home situation is such that he simply doesn't have time.


Edwina