Does this happen to anyone else?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2003
Does this happen to anyone else?
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Fri, 10-31-2003 - 7:47am
MM was supposed to come over yesterday and the day before and he never did. He did call thought on the first day to tell me that he could not, and yesterday he texed me with just a "whats up" and I asked what happened and he said that he had company. I text him back that I do not mean to be rude but I have a life too and that if he was not coming over just to tell me in advance, that I never ask anything of him just to be honest. Now I understand that it is harder for him to leave the house because his W is home during the day and that is the only time that he could come to see me since my H is at work, but my point is don't make plans with me if you are not sure you can come through. I left the house yesterday after the blowout and I was driving and he asks where I am because he was near my house. Again lack of communication. We ended conversation on good terms. I just think he does not care enough, if he did he would try to see me somehow, right? Maybe I am being selfish. Does this happen to anyone else?
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2003
Fri, 10-31-2003 - 9:54am
bump
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-24-2003
Fri, 10-31-2003 - 10:21am
While my EMA is in the first stages, I have had this happen to me when I was dating and very often in my marriage. I have said pretty much what you have said, adding that there is ALWAYS a way to contact me if plans chanage (expecially in this day and age of cell phones, text messages, computer, and a telephone at every gas station!)

Consideration is something I expect from everyone in my life; if I don't receive it, I don't need them. Life is too short, and there are too many people out there who can take the time to show me even the most basic consideration. IMHO

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2003
Fri, 10-31-2003 - 12:16pm
Thanks for your reply life is grand. I don't get many in this board and it is hard when you want some advice and are feeling so down.