DOES HE LIKE ME TOO?

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DOES HE LIKE ME TOO?
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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 12:43pm
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Edited 2/3/2004 6:28:18 PM ET by amicod
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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 12:48pm
Hi there. He probably thinks you are good looking or whatever but I bet he's shy. Plus he may not be thinking any more than a flirting kind of way. But he probably feels guilty for talking to you that's why he's serious and leaves right away.

You aren't really considering having an A are you? From what you said it doesn't sound like he would be A material. Unless he really cranks things up a notch or two. Plus you said you wouldn't consider cheating? If I was you I would stick with H and maybe make the neighbor the star of my fantasies if he's hot, but I wouldn't recommend trying to take it any farther. JMHO

Dusty
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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 12:59pm

i posted this on your other thread --


**hi amicod and welcome to the board!

CL-Gurlfriend50

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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 1:05pm
I like his wife so I would never hurt her or risk my family, but it makes my heart FLUTTER when he lights up and waves or when I catch him at his window. He must have some type of feelings ~ I know my husband waves to people but he doesn't get all excited and smile.

I recently had he and his wife and their baby over for dessert. We have a baby the same age. he kept glancing at me. I went and talked to the wife and I heard him asking my husbamd on questions about me. After 45 min. the kids went in my bedroom. My crush jumped up and said he'd follow the kids for safety. i think he wanted to see my house. nonetheless i went to get something out of the bedrrom and my crush freaked out and said 'we gotta go, let's go let's go." it was strange. . . . HELP

Myabe he's the type who shows his excitement ~ you know what I mean?

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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 3:00pm
Sounds like you've both got this little crush thing going on maybe. Its always nice and makes a woman feel good and everything to have men admire her, especially when the man is not your husband. Its very flattering and I can totally understand the heart being fluttery thing. But what are you going to do, try and take it to the next level? I mean, you said you didn't want to cheat on your H, so really there's nothing more you should do. And if you try to get all friendly with them too quick, the W may become suspicious of your motives. I would say that unless this guy gives you some kind of very clear signal, I would just be happy to know that he thinks youre attractive.
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Thu, 01-29-2004 - 7:23pm
HI Ami

You said that your husband seems to be aware of the MM crush, is it possable that he is aware of yours also?

If his wife knows something is up were can she take it....your husband!

Your playing on a slippery slope here, were the mind goes the body wants to follow.

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