Does your A leave you exhausted?

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Does your A leave you exhausted?
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Sun, 05-16-2010 - 12:50am
I am mentally and physically exhausted---have been for the past 6 months, ever since I started A.
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Registered: 04-27-2010
Sun, 05-16-2010 - 9:03am

Short answer: YES!!!!


However, I'm finding that I'm starting to settle down a bit :) In the beginning...when we met last summer...I wasn't sleeping and was TOTALLY obsessed with thinking about him 24/7!!

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Registered: 04-11-2010
Sun, 05-16-2010 - 10:09pm

Hi Hiskimber


I like your post. Im in a very similar position. Amazingly intense affair at first, two short but painful breakups, now we are

You are what you consistently do
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Registered: 04-06-2010
Mon, 05-17-2010 - 9:44am

Oh, yes he wear me out in all the wrong ways..Then I say to myself everyday , why am in this A ? The answer, He is my escape from my real life.


Being in unhappy marriage, grown kids that drive you nut, then to top it all I am

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Mon, 05-17-2010 - 11:14am

Heck YES the A leaves me exhausted, mentally & emotionally. I'm like you constantly "thinking". Thinking about him, what he's doing, who he's with, if he's thinking of me. Thinking about what I'am doing and all the energy it takes to look "pretty" and to scheme on being with him. I never thought I could be so creative and manipulative, new traits I didn't think I had in me. I'm exhausted right now because I didn't sleep well last night. Praying to God to the universe to take this man out of my mind because I'm in so deep.


BTW he exhausts me in bed to...ugh just the thought ;)

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 05-03-2010
Mon, 05-17-2010 - 5:05pm

Yes, sometimes it does wear me out.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Thu, 05-20-2010 - 12:55am
Yes!