Dont know what to make of this one

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Registered: 12-29-2008
Dont know what to make of this one
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Sat, 06-26-2010 - 10:04pm

So my AP has been on vacation for the past two weeks. The first week was a trip to Europe with his wife only and the second was a week at the beach with his Wife and kids. So..I saw him before he left which was great and prepared my self for NC until maybe after the 4th of July.

Well this week, the week with his family I have heard more from him than I did in whole month of May. I would think that since his wife and kids are around he wouldn't even try to initiate contact. Normally, I hear from him maybe once a week at best. And its not like he has a office that he works at, he is home most of the time and his wife works outside the home. So I don't get this sudden burst of attention with his family being around? He even sent me a IM today and we don't communicate on weekends.

I mean I like the attention... but throwing a skeptical side eye at it too.lol So any bets when the pulling away and cold shoulder starts?lol

Ugghhh!! Help me I cant help but like this guy...

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Sun, 06-27-2010 - 12:30am
Wow!
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Registered: 05-29-2010
Sun, 06-27-2010 - 6:04pm
So he wasn't in contact with you when he was just with his wife, but he was when he was with with wife and kids?
My guess is when he was just with his wife - he was just with his wife (as in mentally and emotionally). Now that the kids are around, he probably has more opportunities to text you (wife being with the kids and being distracted by them), plus it is not quite so 'intimate' as it would be if it was just him and her.
Yes, I know what you mean about the hot and cold - very frustrating! :(