Don't know what to think...
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Don't know what to think...
| Thu, 08-19-2010 - 11:15pm |
Just checking in I guess, I haven't posted in a couple of weeks.
| Thu, 08-19-2010 - 11:15pm |
Just checking in I guess, I haven't posted in a couple of weeks.
Sweetie, you've got to receive the message that's been sent. Some AP take the sneak coward way out (they are cheaters after all, not much honor there) and just vaporize on you. I don't know if yours was EA or PA but often this happens after the sex starts ... they get theirs and move on. Does this make me fell used, hell yes. But that's life in A-land sometimes. If you keep on pining for him you just hurt yourself worse ... be strong and take care.
-jana
new2a1,
I'm sorry to burst your bubble here, but from a man's perspective, I think he has "vaporized," so to speak. In some of the purely PAs I have had, I will admit to having done this ... the OW never attempted contact either, so I assume it was mutual. I have also had OWs in PAs simply refuse my texts and emails, too. Fortunately, these As were purely physical and the pain, if there was any, was minimal.
I do sympathize, however, because it sounds to me like you're at least somewhat emotionally attached to this guy. I'm in an EA right now and would definitely feel devastated if the same thing happened to me. But, the reality is, he is most likely no longer interested. My advice would be to give him one more call or email saying you're gone if he doesn't respond. And if he doesn't, then go.
Thanksfor your input, I can see where people, myself included would be inclined to think he doesn't want this anymore, but