Don't understand

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Registered: 04-03-2003
Don't understand
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Fri, 04-16-2004 - 4:13pm
I've decided to read some of the posts on here and just don't understand some things. WHY would you want to be with a man who is married? WHY can't you find a single man? If you are married and cheating, then WHY don't you just end things with your husband? My sisters H is having an affair and I can't comprehend how the OW can do this knowing full well he has a wife and 3 year old son. Don't you think about the feelings of the wife and the children? How can you not be riddled with guilt? How can you ever trust a man like this? Not blaming the A 100% on you, but I don't understand how a decent human being could do this to another.
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Registered: 03-04-2004
Fri, 04-16-2004 - 4:24pm
With all due respect (to both the poster and moderators for my jumping in) I think you may be looking for a different forum.

This forum is for people involved in affairs or considering becoming involved in them and for the most part is void of value judgements about whether you should or should not be having an affair. This is a support forum.

As for decent human beings... lots of supposedly decent human beings do terrible things to one another or stand by while things are done to others. "Decent" is a very subjective value judgement. One person's missionary work is another person's ethnic cleansing... just ask the native Americans.

rain

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Fri, 04-16-2004 - 4:45pm


Here Here Rain! Here Here!

deedee

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Registered: 10-13-2003
Fri, 04-16-2004 - 6:54pm

I'm not going to answer your question.