dreams

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dreams
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Wed, 01-13-2010 - 2:28am

Wow I have not posted here in quite some time :) Haven't really needed to until tonight.


I had a very strange dream today. It included AP and H...and it woke me from a dead sleep.


I was in a dumpy little studio apt in my undies and APs work shirt and we were sleeping on sleeping bags or something like that (he had recently left W and had nothing to his name). I sat up in bed, kissed him and said "well looks like we have cookies for breakfast, you have nothing else here." AP said "you should go back home, back to where you have things, where your H is." I stated "I don't want to go home, the only reason I am there is because I know that H will take care of a flat tire if I get one." (I am assuming the "flat tire" was a code word for "problems"). Anyhow, some other person, or voice said to me "you need to leave H...this is not right and he needs someone who wants to be with him and who is true." (I am thinking this "other voice" was my subconscience).


Yesterday, I had a dream someone caught AP and I having sex and recorded it on their cell phone and texted the video to our spouses.


I know I am not going nuts, but I think my mind is trying to tell my heart it is time to hang this up? We are going on 2 yrs as PA....5 or 6 years as EA, 2.5 Ddays, and several "I can't do this anymore" emails, texts, coffees.


My heart is not ready to do this.

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Registered: 04-05-2007
In reply to: gal_anonymous1
Wed, 01-13-2010 - 3:55pm

Hmmm... really interesting dreams. I agree with you on the meanings, but it's up to you whether you can go through with it or not.

By the way - keeping a dream journal can be helpful, but if it's somewhere your H can see it, maybe not. Anyway, we often wake up in the middle of the night with a dream fresh in our heads - if we jot them down we will have them and even remember them upon re-reading. If we don't jot them down, and fall asleep within 10 minutes, we will not even remember that we remembered a dream, or that we had one, it's completely gone. Sometimes all you need to jot down are key words - it will make you remember the dream and what the words means.

Another thing, WE are best able to interpret our own dreams. Dream dictionaries help a little, but deep down, WE know what something is trying to tell us - it may be different than the dream dictionary definition, but it's OUR subconscious after all - not the author of the dream dictionary's subconscious.

Nice to see a post from you! ☺

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