Dusty - are you out there?!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Dusty - are you out there?!
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Mon, 01-12-2004 - 3:05pm
dusty, honey, i need an email address for you off this board!

gurl

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 3:32pm
Hi there, you can email me on here then I can email you back from my addresss if you like?

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 3:53pm
Hi Gurl, you are right about his fingers not being broken. And now that I think of it, (and email messages to verify it), he did the same thing last year at this time, disappeared without a word for a couple of weeks then said he'd been off with the flu. I remember how disappointed I was then, but I rushed right back to see him as soon as he suggested it.

Maybe I should make him wait a bit this time. He could have sent a message saying he was sick. And in the fall, he was NC for over 8 weeks, then he blamed part of that on being sick and part on being too busy. And I just sat there and took the excuses, and took him right back.

I think I need an attitude adjustment!!

Dusty
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 4:00pm
dusty, it just sounds to me like MM is playing you honey! i know you're a smart, grownup woman, but he just keeps blowing you off and as soon as he crooks his finger, you go running back. one question, is the sex that good?!

i hate to say it, but you really, really have to put some distance between MM and yourself. just to get some perspective on the R and whether or not to continue it at some point. but right now you absolutely have no control over your life and that's NEVER good. take back your power and keep your self-respect, please, please, please!!!

gurl

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 4:29pm
Gurl, I know you are right. I should not go running right back. I will try to act cool and put him off as long as I can. And really think things over. This weekend I was thinking, if I keep myself busy enough maybe I can get by without seeing him,. I just don't know if I can do that though.

Anyways, I am leaving work soon, but maybe will check the board later on. If not, talk to you tomorrow!!

Dusty
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