I know you said before you didn't really want to cheat on your H. And that's great really. If you can manage to stay with just fantasizing about the guy while you're with H, maybe that will do for you.
You do sound pretty mixed up though. Because you're not really sure if you want to be friends with them, or have a go at the H. I think you can't have both. It would be really hard don't you think, to be friends with the W when you know you had designs on her H right from the start?
It just sounds like you're really lonely and a little depressed. Maybe you should try to get out more and make some friends. That may help.
hi amicod -- honey, you need to settle down!
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You do sound pretty mixed up though. Because you're not really sure if you want to be friends with them, or have a go at the H. I think you can't have both. It would be really hard don't you think, to be friends with the W when you know you had designs on her H right from the start?
It just sounds like you're really lonely and a little depressed. Maybe you should try to get out more and make some friends. That may help.