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E-Mails Busted
| Sun, 09-07-2003 - 9:42am |
My daughter (gone to college) told me this week that she has known almost from the very beginning what has been happening between me and MM but never said anything until now. She knew my password but stupid me trusted her not to invade my privacy. That bothers me more than what she found out. I am embarrassed but not ashamed. Talk about lessons being learned. Notbing I could say made any difference. She is loyal to her father and won't say anything to him to hurt him. She said some hateful things to me but it has blown over between us and she has moved past it. She asked me how I would feel if her father had done this to me and I told her I didn't know. She was fuming. Her biggest fear was that I was going to "run away with him." I will tell MM eventually. This has been a god awful week. MM away all week on vacation with W (another thing for me to deal with) and I had decided not to e-mail him even before I knew about daughter's knowledge, so we have had NC for almost 2 weeks. It has been a respite of a sort. Now I don't want to write anymore intimate e-mails. Too little, too late. And too bad, since it is one of the only ways of communicating LD. My advice, e-mails are public domain as we all know and can come back to haunt you, hard as they are not to write. Don't.
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| Sun, 09-07-2003 - 10:09am |
I think you owe it to yourself and your daughter to get some counseling. This MM and your A is nothing compared to your relationship with her. And why not include your H while you're at it? Lily
