EAP's wife left me a msg - what do I do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2007
EAP's wife left me a msg - what do I do?
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Mon, 08-25-2008 - 10:16am

She left me a v/m this morning - should I call her back?

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-29-2006
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 10:36am

Bleh, that's not a good thing. I don't know what to tell you, but I'm sure the others will have some advice for you soon.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-14-2007
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 10:51am

I guess it depends on how much of the truth you really want. I didn't catch the first time around that you guys have only been chatting online for a little over a month. Hon, the odds are low enough that a MM is going to leave his family, the odds of one leaving after corresponding to an old flame for a month are slim to none and slim just walked out the door.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2007
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 10:58am

You are probably right.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-27-2007
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 11:02am

Do nothing. Nothing. This is not your problem. Its his. Don't text, call, email and don't answer any calls or texts from his phone or hers. Pretend he doesn't exist. He most likely did throw you under the bus, so be thankful you got out before his W started up the engine.


I know this is probably not what you wanted to hear, but its time for you to protect yourself and let him do the same. He's a big boy.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2008
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 11:59am

I agree with BTDT.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2001
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 12:21pm

Gotta agree with my buddy, BTDT on this one.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2007
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 12:50pm

Well, I did what I felt what I needed to do.


I spoke with him and he said that he told her the truth.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2007
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 12:52pm

Yup - I echo the others - let it go.

lightning in my heart

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-01-2008
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 4:11pm

Well it sounds like you handled it really well.

 

 

 

 

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2007
Mon, 08-25-2008 - 4:24pm

Thank you for your support - I know most of the people on here were firm that I shouldn't do anything - so I'm glad to see your post.


She did start to get a little ticked with a few of my "none of your business" comments, but it never got out of hand or rude.

 

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