easier for a women to cheat than man??

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Registered: 06-14-2010
easier for a women to cheat than man??
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Mon, 08-23-2010 - 2:17pm

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Registered: 08-19-2010
Mon, 08-23-2010 - 3:30pm

AP texts and asks to see me but I am the one who actually has to make it work, set up a time and place, details, etc. I wonder some days, if I didnt text him at all, how long it would take to text me and ask to see me. Sorry he wasn't able to make it. :(

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Registered: 04-28-2010
Mon, 08-23-2010 - 4:22pm
I don't think being a man or a woman has much to do with how easy it is to cheat. I think the circumstances are different for all of us and it is very individual. In my EA, my MM is very receptive and responsive, but I am usually the one that sends the first email or initiates a get together. It works for us so I don't worry too much about it. I am used to this role of "social director" in my household and am in management in my job, so to me it comes naturally. MM doesn't seem to mind and feels comfortable with how things have been going. I am not sure what his role is at home, but I know he is a planner and maybe he likes having someone else do the planning for a change? Not sure, but it works right now. I do wonder how long it would take if I didn't email or set up a get together for him to initiate. I know he would do it eventually, but it may not be as soon as I would like it to be, so I just get the ball rolling. I want to see him and he has the choice as to whether to agree or not. Sometimes we have to reschedule, but mostly he comes through. I don't think you are guiltless or sneaky, I think you want to see him and you are assertive about that. If it doesn't bother you, don't worry about it. If it does, you can ask him why he doesn't initiate more. My guess is my MM may feel less guilty if he isn't actively doing the planning, but just going along for the ride. Maybe he doesn't want to put him self out there and risk rejection-waiting for me to email him a response, or to say yes to a lunch date and feels more comfortable if I put it out there first. Just my theory.
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Registered: 05-17-2010
Mon, 08-23-2010 - 4:41pm

I do sometimes think its easier for women because we are less "suspicious"