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EMA - no sex involved
| Thu, 09-11-2003 - 2:23pm |
Hi everyone! I'm new to this discussion and I hope you could help. I'm married to my highschool sweetheart for 3 years now with a son. We've known each other for almost 8 years now. I love my husband with all of my heart. Last year, our old acquaintance (male) moved to our city. He's also married with two kids. I was attracted to him for a whole year but my feelings didn't grow stronger until last month when we were moving out to another city almost 200 miles away. I am close friends with his wife but I'm closer to him. We started flirting at first until we kissed. Then, we started talking on the phone a lot. They have come to visit us a couple of times and we got to sneak some kisses. But that's all that happened. I know it's just a kiss but I feel guilty. The reason why we haven't had sex is because we just never had a chance. I'm hoping that even if we do get the chance that we won't do it. I know it sounds weird but I just really really like him. I want to do other things with him except sex. Maybe it's because I'm not sure where we're gonna end up in the future. He's also in the military and will be getting deployed for a year. That's one more reason why I don't want to go any further with him. But I can't let him go. I can't stop thinking about him. Has anyone ever been in this situation?

Best wishes.
You said was involved - are you still seeing you OM.
I'm M and OM is S - We haven't had IC yet - and would just like to talk to someone in the same boat as me.
"Joe" and I have talked about sex (and played around a lot) but I don't want to "do it" untill we can spend the night/day together.
We have been seeing each other for close to a year now, last spring (02)we started flirting a lot, and then last Oct. he kissed me for the first time and WOW!!
I have never been a person who slept around, I've only had sex with my H - Sometimes I wonder if that is all it is, just someone different.