Let me help you out, here, okay? All beautifulness and sugar-dipped pink saliva aside, okay? You, a MM, were having a 7–yr. A with a single OW. Since I don't know what and how exactly you
Partly right. No sugar coating going on. Occasional talk from her about 'when the kids are grown', but I avoided it because it was so long off. I never expected her to stick around that long. I plan to leave home then regardless.
This is her third departure, to find a normal relationship. I've always cooperated. It'd be hard to argue the point. Never feels great obviously. First time she's (apparently) found someone, so it feels worse. The one-line email was just something to cling to at the moment.
No delusions of unfairness. I never promised her a rose garden, and she never made any bones about her desire to find something better.
I'm so sorry for your pain. If it would help you to share your story I'm sure you will have many sympathetic readers to support you through this.
Hugs
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Let me help you out, here, okay? All beautifulness and sugar-dipped pink saliva aside, okay? You, a MM, were having a 7–yr. A with a single OW. Since I don't know what and how exactly you
NR!
Hello there,
Good answer.
Partly right. No sugar coating going on. Occasional talk from her about 'when the kids are grown', but I avoided it because it was so long off. I never expected her to stick around that long. I plan to leave home then regardless.
This is her third departure, to find a normal relationship. I've always cooperated. It'd be hard to argue the point. Never feels great obviously. First time she's (apparently) found someone, so it feels worse. The one-line email was just something to cling to at the moment.
No delusions of unfairness. I never promised her a rose garden, and she never made any bones about her desire to find something better.