Email or IM Buddy?

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Registered: 05-21-2010
Email or IM Buddy?
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Tue, 06-29-2010 - 4:46pm

I am meeting a new AP from AM in a couple of weeks. I do not have anyone in RL that I can tell about this. Is there anyone here who would like to be my email/IM buddy so that I can feel safer? Just to send an IM to when I get there...after an hour or two...whatever.


I had posted about this new AP...not really an AP yet as all we have done is chat, IM, webcam etc. but are planning to meet in a city about equal driving distance for noth of us in about 2 1/2 weeks. I was initially concerned about meeting, but put those fears to rest...but...some responses to my post cautioned me about meeting and reminded me that safety should be first, and to let someone know details - thank you btw to all who posted and are concerned:-)

Thanks in advance...anyone can email me through the member email thing.

LouLou
LouLou
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Tue, 06-29-2010 - 5:21pm
I'd be happy to do it for you, although it would depend on when it is.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 05-21-2010
Tue, 06-29-2010 - 5:35pm

OMG...Another...I cannot tell you how much this means to me. I will email you and we will see if we can work this out.
Really...I just want to be able to say that I am texting someone with all the details so if he is a crazed serial killer he will think twice before he does me:-) ok that sounds so CRAZY!!!


Thanks...going to email you in a bit.

LouLou
LouLou
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Tue, 06-29-2010 - 5:37pm
No problem :).

anotherseyes

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Registered: 05-21-2010
Tue, 06-29-2010 - 5:44pm
I just sent you an email - let me know if you don't receive it:-) Thanks!
LouLou
LouLou
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Tue, 06-29-2010 - 5:48pm
Will do :)

anotherseyes

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Registered: 07-12-2004
Tue, 06-29-2010 - 9:11pm

Hi LouLou, sounds like you are all set already, but you cal also email me.

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Registered: 10-03-2009
Tue, 06-29-2010 - 9:16pm

Lou,


same here.. feel free to IM/text me as a "back up" option..


good luck..

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Registered: 06-06-2010
Tue, 06-29-2010 - 10:40pm
It is probably to late, but if you have safety doubts meeting him probably you should trust your first instincts! Are you meeting in a public place? I joined Ashley Madison two days ago, I am kind off freaked out about what I am seeing and thinking of chickening out now.
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Tue, 06-29-2010 - 10:46pm

LouLou and I are all set up, although she's more than welcome to have as many back-ups as she'd like :).


I'm also game for chatting offline: nice when the squirrels come around, and also nice to not always have to worry about TOS ;) lol

anotherseyes