emotional infidelity
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| Sun, 02-22-2004 - 10:47pm |
Tonight after dinner we were drinking coffee in a local mall food court and started to have a serious discussion about things in general when I confessed to him that on our last get-together I really wanted to kiss him at the end of the night. He replied he felt the same way.
We were sitting in the parking lot where I left my car and I struggled to get out of my car and we ended up kissing.
I've been married for less than two years to a guy I've known for six years. I'm tired of being the adult in the relationship. He doesn't know this person or these get-togethers. I should feel more guilty than I do but I haven't felt I've been getting everything I need from my marriage or my husband for a while now.
Where do I go from here? What do I do next?

I have been reading a book called "The Road Less Traveled" by M. Scott Peck. It is a classic, and has really changed my idea of relationships.
By the way, I am a regular at the "Ending an Affair" group, and just come over here once in a while to remind myself what I went through, and why I am working so hard to get over my XMM and make my marriage work.
Good luck.
Lala
hi tstar and welcome to the board.
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
So many of us here are already into longer term marriages, children are involved, its just not that simple to "walk away". God, some days I would give anything to be able to do that!! Just think it out for yourself, talk to H, try to work it out. If all else fails, move on and take it from there. Best wishes,
Dusty
You listen to what these women are telling you, talk to your husband, if he does not take it seriously "DEMAND" MC or a legal seperation, let him know how serious you are.
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