Emotional vs. Physical...please Help!!
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Emotional vs. Physical...please Help!!
| Sun, 09-20-2009 - 4:58pm |
How do you know if your A is emotional or simply physical for your AP? please read my post "What the Heck" from yesterday. How many of you are in emotional or combination emotional/physical A?

Hi gal,
I believe my A is both and EA/PA. I'm not sure how you tell. My ap shares things with me about his life, I've met his mother and some of his friends and have talked to his son on the phone. There is alot of the physical involved but also alot of support for each other, caring and concern. That's how I think I can tell. There is always doubt because you can never know someone's motives 100%. But I do trully hope that it's true love and it works out for us. Only time will tell.
I am the one that started to feel something for AP so I couldnt directly relate to your other post (and so didnt answer accordingly) but it seems that he is beginning to have feelings that are going beyond the bedroom for you.
I think an A for S only is when you get your physical release with your AP. You have fond feelings and enjoy the time together but can go about a normal existance in most other areas ie: not worrying about feelings outside of when you can be together intimately again. It becomes emotional when you begin to want more of that person OTHER than S- ie: hand holding, needing to talk, wanting to just be in their company other than IC and you begin to need them to be supportive in the way your DS should be. You care what they think in more aspects than just the bedroom.
Just my opinion and sometimes i am not as eloquent with speech as others here.
SB
I think the reason this is confusing is because we have known each other for 5 years now. Worked closer together over the last 3...sometimes more than others. He knows everything about me just about because he is in a mentoring role with me. However, recently, I have begun learning more about him on a personal level...but he's not opening up all...just doing a lot more non business talk. he has also now told me he thinks the world of me and loves are conversation and our time together. Of course, he said that when we were alone together in a hot tub before we were physical.
Gal
MM and I are in both EA and PA.
Hi Gal,
Gal,
This man has completely abused the trust of a workplace mentoring relationship.
gal,
haven't been on the board in a long time but share your circumstances. please email me if you want to ask more questions.
autremoi
Dear Its,