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| Fri, 03-13-2009 - 10:49am |
Just a question I am in AP 4 years now.
| Fri, 03-13-2009 - 10:49am |
Just a question I am in AP 4 years now.
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We do split things most of the time. She has been pressing me for March and April and its tough right now. We just had a big blowout and she just won't accept taking a break. She is accepting it but takes it as I dont love her. Thats not it. The problem is I have a decent M at home and hers is miserable. She relies on me for emotional, physical, and mental support. She hates her H. My W and I get along but not perfect. I can't help she married an a**. Think we're going LC any advice?
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Getting back to the original post... :-)
I think you need to make decisions for yourself right now. If you are unhappy the way things stand, then taking a step back may offer some clarity and a fresh start. And, who knows? Maybe in your absence she will realize she wants to be with you... or not. Either way, staying when you're unhappy is bad for you, pressuring her into a decision she isn't ready to make is bad for her.
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