Ended things with MM

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-02-2006
Ended things with MM
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Sun, 09-20-2009 - 7:05pm

After a couple weeks away from MM and much thought, I decided to end things.

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Registered: 08-28-2004
Sun, 09-20-2009 - 9:27pm

I'm glad for you. I know you might be sad but I think you made a good

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-02-2006
Sun, 09-20-2009 - 10:57pm
Thanks.
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Registered: 09-09-2009
Mon, 09-21-2009 - 2:06am

It has got to be tough...I am new on this board and still have so many questions as to what am I in etc I am somewhat going with the flow and following his lead b/c in many ways want to continue. If it came to a point like the situation you just described, I don't know what I would do, so I congratulate you for doing the right thing, the unselfish thing and thinking of the spouse involved. I honestly don't know if I'd be strong enough to think outside of what I want...I tend to make decisions based on emotion. Congratulations for having the courage to end it and stay strong and firm in your decision!

Gal

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Registered: 08-02-2006
Mon, 09-21-2009 - 7:10pm
I feel like I did the right thing.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2009
Tue, 09-22-2009 - 2:28pm

Hi I read all your posts so I just wanted to post a hug! I can't imagine how hard that would be to say good bye! I know it was the right thing for you to do! Let us know how we can support you!!

K

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Registered: 08-13-2007
Wed, 09-23-2009 - 11:26am

Dear lifeafter33,


Your posting gave me the strength to do the exact same thing.........

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-02-2006
Thu, 09-24-2009 - 8:18pm
Good for you!
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-02-2006
Thu, 09-24-2009 - 8:24pm
Thanks so much!
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-07-2009
Thu, 09-24-2009 - 8:50pm

Great !! you are handling this 'break up' surprisingly well.

I myself have no desire to end my affair of the heart I have never

been happier or treated as special as I am when with my guy.

I will never leave him, I would rather lose an arm then my best

friend.

Every affair is different. Everyone gets to write their own chapter.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-02-2006
Fri, 10-02-2009 - 10:23am
And I in no way implied you should end your affair.