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| Tue, 09-07-2010 - 12:29pm |
I see so many of you here. I've never seen this many at MAS at one time, in all the time I've been here. I'm trying to figure out how best to help you with this, because this isn't really an "ending" board, but it seems most of you who are contemplating ending are not ready to move on to EAS, where you have to have decided to END it and be ready to have NC, block and walk.
I think you are helping each other a lot. And I have ended A's so I can put myself back into that place. My first A was a full blown love affair, intense, feeling like "soulmates" sort of thing - and it was SO hard to end. I did it because my AP was single and needed "more". This song was my solace after I ended it - I would play it over and over. Some would say I was "wallowing" and idealizing the A, but it comforted me at the time. Maybe it will comfort you some:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uVjEcIANv1o&feature=related
Edited 9/7/2010 12:31 pm ET by cl-lexione


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