Ever Been Accused of an Affair?
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Ever Been Accused of an Affair?
| Wed, 04-22-2009 - 7:55am |
Has anyone ever been accused of an affair when in fact, there was nothing going on? Because our spouses accused us of something that wasn't happening, I can't help but think that doing so really just stoked the fire that we knew we could feel, but didn't act on it at all. At that time, he was helping me make a cd, and there was a lot of emailing, getting together to talk about production of the cd, etc, and we were just friends. We were accused then of something going on cuz of the amount of time we were yapping. But its hard work making a cd, i didn't know the first thing about it. He is an expert. During this whole process, I am trying not to fall in love with him, and then BAM! we were accused....there was still nothing inappropriate going on at that time. After that, we resorted to sneaking around to be together, even in social settings. And i think that's one major way our friendship changed. We weren't just casual friends anymore. And we still are sneaking around, two years later.
Edited 4/22/2009 8:04 am ET by emscemily
Edited 4/22/2009 8:04 am ET by emscemily
Signatures On
| Wed, 04-22-2009 - 9:05am |
My H and his W dont know each other and i have no desire to know her.But i do understand what you are saying.Guess,that sometimes others can see what we,while being in the situation cant.It is very likely that your H and his W picked up the vibes flowing between you both and you didnt.For eg,your face glowing and smiling,sparkle in the eyes,happy in general ,those are the things which you might be giving out and were already in love and all that was needed was that little push from your spouse.i can just guess.
