Facebook...do not repeat my mistake!
Find a Conversation
Facebook...do not repeat my mistake!
| Mon, 10-27-2008 - 7:14pm |
I am crying uncontrollably as I write this. Thank goodness my family is in other parts of the house.

I have looked for my AP's wife on facebook but didn't find anything. I think we are just gluten for punishment. He did the same thing though once he was working down my street and H was leaving with kids to go grocery shopping and he tried so hard to get a glimpse. I think it is just in our human nature to want to know. curiousity? It's like a bad car accident you can't help but look.
ohh I am so sorry ,you are hurting..I have done the same thing..but came up empty handed..But I did see a pic.of him with a bunch of women ..and I am pretty sure I picked out his wife and sister and sister inlaw correctly...It does sting, to realize that they do have a life besides with us..and there is nothing we can do or say about it.. but then again .we also have one too..
Dry your tears my friend, and know that a picture is just that a picture,,
Sweety...don't be so heartbroken over this. I have MANY pictures with my H in which we look like the happiest love birds that ever lived. And this was right before we almost divorced. Pictures can be deceiving. Also, it's really not the end of the world if he IS happy in those photos. I know what me and AP has is very deep and special, but I also know that he loves his wife. She is the mother of his child and they have been together for 12 or 13 years, I think. This is life and the nature of an A.
I am not trying to cast your feelings aside, I'm only trying to give you a different perspective. I understand it's hard to see sometimes. The first time I saw a pic of my AP's wife and him I was irritated. I feel like I am much more attractive than she is, but I don't think that is even close to being a factor in our A. It's about the emotional connection that we share.
I hope you can get past this pain.
}}}}}HUGS{{{{{{{