Facebooking your AP

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Registered: 06-06-2010
Facebooking your AP
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Tue, 06-08-2010 - 2:07pm
My AP person requested me to add me to her friends' list. The idea of having her as my fb buddy is tempting, but I am not sure if it is a good idea. We never discussed about adding each other to our fb, but she managed to search me through google. Anyone done this? Should I go ahead and accept her?

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Registered: 07-24-2009
Wed, 06-16-2010 - 2:56pm

MY AP and I are FB friends.

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Registered: 09-29-2008
Wed, 06-16-2010 - 4:19pm
I turned it on. I can't access my personal email from work so I prob won't get it until tomorrow night because I am going to a concert on the beach right after work and will be home late. H, AP, AP's wife will all be there. I prob won't talk to AP's wife except for a hi how are you...she really doesn't like me too much. tells AP "i see how you look at her" We have been involved for over 13 years.
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Registered: 06-06-2010
Wed, 06-16-2010 - 4:27pm
Great! Good luck with the concert!
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Wed, 06-16-2010 - 4:32pm
Discreet - this is going to sound like an odd question, but did you by any chance ever plant a tree for your AP?

anotherseyes

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Registered: 06-06-2010
Wed, 06-16-2010 - 4:39pm
No, at least I don't remember doing that. AP and I don't get to see each other often, and when we see each other it is only for few minutes. Why?
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Wed, 06-16-2010 - 4:44pm
I get everyone's stories confused ;).

anotherseyes

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Registered: 06-06-2010
Wed, 06-16-2010 - 4:51pm
No prob. Though I would love to do so! I love nature-plants and water. Are you a male? I feel outnumbered,and out of place being the only man posting here.
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Registered: 08-30-2009
Wed, 06-16-2010 - 7:01pm
Do not add her as a friend until you talk about it with her.
I would NEVER add my AP as fbook friend. Why? I do not feel familiar enough on facebook to be posting private messages to him on there. Plus I do not see the need. The only way it would be to make a fake facebook person and even then I would set my security setttings very tight! I want him in my life but facebook is not the way to go for me.
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Wed, 06-16-2010 - 8:28pm
No, I'm a woman ;).

anotherseyes

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Registered: 06-06-2010
Thu, 06-17-2010 - 4:06pm

layshka,

Thanks for your advice. I have already added her, and we agreed on boundaries in terms of messaging on FB.

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