feedback please

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Registered: 03-10-2004
feedback please
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Wed, 03-10-2004 - 12:25pm
I am married and had found the most amazing (younger) guy, and we had started out as the best of friends. Liked the same movies, music, same humor, etc. One thing led to another and things just started happening. He is a co-worker of mine and at first everything was great, but lately he ignores me. We went through a point that he would go through complete yelling fits at the smallest things for no reason. (Outside of work)

I am still absolutely crazy about him. But he is so wishy washy one minute he's hot, one minute he's cold. We haven't fooled around in about a month, after his biggest yelling dispute- I never yell back, but I think he wants me to- but I cannot figure out what he's thinking. Why does he treat me sooo badly, when we were so close at one point. Is he playing games and should I be playing them as well? Please help me figure out what is going on with him, I tried to ask him and he tells me to "chill out".

Please help,

Very confused.
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Registered: 10-13-2003
Wed, 03-10-2004 - 12:50pm

very confused,


From what you've written (and this is only my opinion) this guy does not seem amazing.

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Wed, 03-10-2004 - 1:21pm
Do you really want that kind of relationship? Alot of us put up with crap at home, why would you want to do that in an A? If it was me, I'd be putting him on NC right away and see if he turns out a little nicer or apologetic. And if not, I wouldn't see him again.

What right has he got to yell at you? That's BS and I don't know why you would put up with it.

Dusty
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Registered: 01-21-2004
Wed, 03-10-2004 - 1:31pm

hi lauren and welcome to the board.

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