Feeling Better

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Feeling Better
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Sat, 06-19-2010 - 1:52am

I'm happy to report that I think I have my head on straight again, mostly.

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Registered: 04-27-2010
In reply to: janejosie
Sat, 06-19-2010 - 10:04am

Jane...Jane...Jane... :) Girl... I almost don't know what to say LOL! I know you've struggled, so I'm not gonna beat you up too bad...


Um....gee...((HUGS)) Just a little hint: If you're going to be "just friends"... you know the rest ;)

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Registered: 05-03-2010
In reply to: janejosie
Sat, 06-19-2010 - 1:22pm

Glad you're feeling better :).


Just be careful: it's so hard to not let feelings develop/increase, especially when you get physical.

anotherseyes

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In reply to: janejosie
Sat, 06-19-2010 - 6:22pm

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Registered: 03-29-2010
In reply to: janejosie
Sat, 06-19-2010 - 7:53pm

Yeah, I was thinking what hiskimber said. If you're "just friends" with someone, you don't get "hot and heavy" and do everything but IC LOL. I would get just as emotional with "hot and heavy", and it would feel every bit as much an affair as having IC. IC isn't the "be all end all" of sex you know, I don't agree when people think they didn't have sex just because they didn't have IC.

I'm glad you're feeling better! I'm just worried that the sex you are having will end up making you feel just as bad as you did before.

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Registered: 03-26-2010
In reply to: janejosie
Sun, 06-20-2010 - 12:47am

LOL!

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Registered: 03-26-2010
In reply to: janejosie
Mon, 06-21-2010 - 11:00pm

Well, I think I like this "just friends" thing.

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Registered: 04-11-2010
In reply to: janejosie
Tue, 06-22-2010 - 7:34am

Hi Jane


How did you get to being just friends. Im sure your story is here somewhere but I thougt Id ask if thats ok?


Thanks


IGS

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Registered: 03-26-2010
In reply to: janejosie
Tue, 06-22-2010 - 10:49am

Hi, IGS!


We started out as truly "just friends" since high school for the past 16 years, then about

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Registered: 03-03-2010
In reply to: janejosie
Tue, 06-22-2010 - 11:14am

Question for you about the "friends" thing... would you treat your best girl friend to an encounter like that?

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Registered: 03-26-2010
In reply to: janejosie
Wed, 06-23-2010 - 12:07pm

Well, I wouldn't mind treating a few of my girl friends to a interlude like that...lol...but I wouldn't have to hide that from H!