feeling blue - NC for 5 weeks
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feeling blue - NC for 5 weeks
| Wed, 09-10-2003 - 12:56pm |
Hello everyone, I am new here but have been reading the boards. I was having an 'A' with MM for almost 2 years. It was a physical relationship, and we emailed each other daily basis to keep in touch. About a year ago he mentioned about not seeing each other, but that didn't happen, we continued to see each other. Well, about 5 weeks ago, was the last time we got together. Then he emailed saying he'd like to see me the next week. I haven't heard back from him since!! The longest time period we didn't talk before was about 3 weeks and so now I am worried/upset/confused. I would like to see him again, but I already sent a couple of emails since then with no response, so I'm not going to lose all my self-respect by begging him!! And I am made sad by the fact that he didn't even say goodbye to me if that is what he wanted. I don't know if he will change his mind? Or do men never change their mind once they've made it up?
I would appreciate some advice from anyone who's been thru this and survived!! Thanks.

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he's in his third marriage, i've only been married once and tooo scared to try again.
BF and i have many more issues than the drinking, but those issues are only getting worse as more time passes and he gets older (he's 9 years older than me, and i'm old -- well, not in my head!!). anyway, i'm not going to live without sex ever, i hope. and neither should you. eventually we have to make OURSELVES happy or we'll go crazy!
gurl
happiness comes from inside you. i know you're upset now because of the come-down/letdown from your R probably being over, but the best medicine is to get back to being you! and remember the good things from the A. he did make you feel attractive so obviously you are a good-looking woman who has had love in her life and will again. you will come to your own decision insofar as your M, in your own time.
make your HAPPY!
gurl
take care,
gurl
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