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| Sun, 10-19-2008 - 2:04pm |
saw ap last week monday for lunch, tuesday we ate out..then went back to my place he was there until midnight, wednesday no AP, thursday for lunch-he gave me the biggest bottle of Belvedere Vodka that's sold (love my Vodka..he's given this to me before), friday no AP was mad at his azz because of thursday's discussion at lunch and how he treats me like a kid sometimes..he even calls me "KID" at times like i'm his daughter, saturday-didn't know AP was coming over but again my son knew...he came to see my son off to his homecoming formal and to give him money for afterwards to buy my son's date dinner or whatever they were gonna do...it was a surprise for me i guess..they like to play tricks on me..(no AP is not son's father..)
After we dropped my son off, I was in a funky mood..things have been welling up inside me for a while..what I mean is, I have a great AP, he loves me dearly and I love him dearly..but..I have questions that I'm afraid to ask him because I'm very scared that they will turn into an argument or somehow make him leave me...although I know you can't control what someone does, they are gonna leave if they want to leave.

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ha ha ha you are really really funny..there's no alcohol problem silly...there's someone here that understands why alcohol affects me like it does..and she replied to me...but thanks for your concern..you are completey off base and out of line.....i get tipsy after 1 or 2 drinks with small amts of vodka.....granted i shouldnt have had the third..however you are wayyy out of line...
also....."not to be blunt"
ya know you are really late with this...but i think you missed the part where i said i sobered up before i went to get them...and where i said he hung around town incase i didn't sober up...i could call and he would go get them himself...hmmm i wouldn't be drunk and go get my son and his date.....i think ya missed some points....reread..i know it was a long post but sometimes we skip over little details and focus in on things we think are exciting or juicy details....
but thanks for your advice....although i didn't drink through the low...we were at a restaurant and i had two drinks..when we got back to my place (not arguing or anything..well he doesn't really argue with me..) we were watching tv and i got another drink....
pay attention to detail......the low came after i drank and said something to him..things were on my mind but i wasnt giong through a low
Edited 10/22/2008 10:25 am ET by tygerzize
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
I have to jump in, in a little defense of this poster.
words on a page are often misconstrued..and
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
How do you think
it sounds exactly as if she was being judgemental..but hey she's human as well as i am...we are all in the same gang..so people who live in glass houses..., judge not lest ye be....
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
i'm not secure in this NC status because of my child..that's ridiculous..
Well that's the sense I got from your posts...several mentions how you were not particularly worry because he was in touch with your son.
By backpeddaling I meant because she told you to get help with the alcohol, and then you said that alcohol wasn't a problem, whereas before you said ..me + alcohol + disaster....
okay, i see what you mean..i didn't mean i had a problem with alcohol....i won't drink for 4 mos at a time, if i do it can become disaster because it's like truth serum....i didn't mean i have an issue with alcohol....and if someone tells you to get help with alcohol that is absolutely a judgement.....come on now..if she had said..don't drink and drive or at the suggestion of another or other posters..maybe limit the drinks, if you in
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
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