Feeling so guilty
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Feeling so guilty
| Fri, 05-07-2004 - 5:08pm |
I'm so totally disinterested, everytime my fiance tries to approach me physically. Sex has always been one of our major problems. It was never exciting, for me! with MM it's so totally different.He sweeps me off my feet. I'm afraid he had so raised my standards and expecations, that I feel soo disinterested and not motived whenever my fiance tries to approach me! I'm feeling terribly guilty about it! I once even pretended that "It's that time of the month" just to try and keep him off! Just wanted to know if there are others out there like me feeling that huge gap in the sexual life between H and between MM...and how they get over that...

abusive, lasted only a couple of years, in my 20's.
This H will be 19years this June..more of a friendship from
the first ruined marriage, never really had that passion, lust
and wanting to tear his clothes off like I have with my MM.
My H is a wonderful person..but no sex drive and I haven't
either with him.
Why can't we have it all!! I want my H to be my MM as far
as passion, but will never be.
Maybe that is why I am so tolerant for the few times we have
together, because it does make up for the passion I do not
have. Does that make sense?
Thanks Bunny
Lucky
you don't..I 've been in your shoes and now married 20 years and i am still trying to figure it out. Don't marry this guy or at least don't set a date, give yourself time to understand and figure out if this is right.
TRUST ME!!
deedee