Feeling very encouraged & hopeful!

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Feeling very encouraged & hopeful!
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Thu, 08-05-2010 - 8:04pm

Well, as the title says...I'm feeling so encouraged and hopeful, and very happy right now. I thought that I would share some of it with you guys.


AP has been so incredible to me lately....starting with his tenderness and care for me when I hurt myself a few weeks back. I was so excited by the fact that he told me he loves me (he shows it a lot, but rarely says it) that I'd quite forgotten a few other gems that he's told me lately...such as:


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Thu, 08-05-2010 - 11:10pm

:-)

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Registered: 02-06-2010
Fri, 08-06-2010 - 1:14am
wow. sounds ideal right now. it doesn't sound as if u r married. good luck with it all. how many years have u two been seeing each other now? and, if he is married, how did he get to see u thurs thru monday? if u would like to know why i think people in decent marriages have As read my reply to: do only people in bad marriages have As. it might give you some insight into what you r doing with this man, rather than having illusions of something else down the road. be practical my dear. everyone who touches us, teaches us.
when one does not love too much, one does not love enough --blaise pascal
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Fri, 08-06-2010 - 2:52pm

Hi marie,


Yeah, it is pretty ideal right now. I feel the need to pinch myself sometimes!


I am the single one in this relationship, although when we started I was still M. As far as how he manages to spend that amount of time with me...he and his W have no relationship whatsoever. They may even have some sort of an "understanding" I just don't know. His marriage is a train wreck, always has been and probably always will be. From what he told me, he was told after only two years of M that she'd made a mistake marrying him and that she didn't love him. Why he didn't leave then is beyond me! I try not to think about it too much because it really confuses me. I don't know how any woman could put up with a husband that sleeps with other women...does she have no self respect? I know that he would have done nothing of the sort if they had a loving relationship....which they definitely do NOT. Anyhow, the end of this month will be our three year anniversary (of our PA) we were having an EA for about a month or so before that though.


Take care,


benska