feelings 4 married man

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2009
feelings 4 married man
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Thu, 11-12-2009 - 10:18am

i was told in the "message board" All Sides of Affair that i should state my story here so here it goes...


i revealed to a married man (via phone call about a month ago) i have feelings for him and thought he would have figured it out by now


i am married as well and my husband works with this MM, which suffice to say, MM knows my H.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2009
Thu, 11-12-2009 - 11:50am

I would say that depends on your MM.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2009
Thu, 11-12-2009 - 6:27pm
I agree with Jap. It depends on the AP. With my AP I lied to myself for quite awhile and told him one day that when feelings get involved it gets to messy. He responded with its too late for that. I thought about it all and he was right. He told me how he felt and the last couple weeks I've told him how I felt too. Im not the type of person to do that. Just recently AP told me he feels the same exact way I do. I've fallen hard for him. I think maybe your MM might like the flirting and lunches with you but he doesn't want to cross that line with you. He might be too scared.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2009
Fri, 11-13-2009 - 12:42am
Okay, so if what all of you are saying is true...I am in trouble! My AP and I were friends and business partners before we ever had S. Any chance we get we go to lunch or dinner and we both know the names of the kids. We even get together with our families. So, if what you are saying is absolute truth, there would be no way my AP wouldn't have some feelings for me??? WOW! That complicates things.