Final decision: sticking to hubby

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Registered: 05-30-2009
Final decision: sticking to hubby
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Wed, 07-15-2009 - 8:16pm

I finally decided that the best thing to do is NOT to run away with the lover, but rather to stick to my husband. The particulars of the decisions are stated in the break up e-mail. The lover is a wonderful man, it hurt to leave him, but it would have hurt a million times more to leave my husband. If you have time to read this e-mail, which is rather long, please do so and please share your thoughts on the rationale of my choice.


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Dear ______,

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
Wed, 07-15-2009 - 10:25pm

Hi erosme,


This is just my opinion, I think this particular letter you should keep for yourself.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-25-2008
Thu, 07-16-2009 - 6:54am

I agree - this is a letter for yourself. I would also recommend keeping it to about 5 or 6 sentences. We women always like to talk, talk, talk - men just like it short and sweet.

He's going to be hurt - the best thing you can do is to wish him well then leave him completely alone to heal, IMHO.

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Registered: 05-30-2009
Thu, 07-16-2009 - 11:38am

Thanks, girls. Yeah, I have a problem with wordiness sometimes. =P