Finally Contact

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Registered: 09-07-2008
Finally Contact
Mon, 09-15-2008 - 8:12pm
Finally heard from dear AP last night. Had a long chat. I just flat out told him that I could not go weeks without any contact. He said he understood. Being that we are now 1 1/2 hours apart it is difficult for us to see each other. He said yes he agreed. I told him I wanted it to work and he said he did to. I also told him that I wasn't going to chase after him and that he was going to have to prove to me that he wanted me. He said he didn't have to prove sh*t because I have tried to break if off several times before which I have and he has always taken me right back which he has and that he is the one who keeps the relationship going. He said the reason he took me right back was because he loves me. I said how do you keep it going when you don't contact me for weeks at a time. Of course he had no answer for me. Then we talked about our recent overnight stay together out of town and I told him that I loved every minute of it. He said he did to and that it was just as hard for him as it is for me. I told him that we are going to have to make time for each other if we want this continue otherwise I didn't know how long I could go on like this. He said he understood. It all ended on a good note but we will see if he continues to go on weeks with no contact again. I told him the least I wanted was an email or call every once in a while. He then said he wanted me to come see him Friday but due to work I will not be able to make it. So I sent and email and told him to see if he could next week. We will see what I get.