Finally Going to be Together!

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Registered: 05-23-2009
Finally Going to be Together!
Sun, 07-12-2009 - 9:24pm

Hi All,
Some of you may have read about my affair, for those of you who haven't I'll try to condense the story.

I had an affair during my first marriage. I broke it off in hopes to salvage my marriage. That didn't work and I totally left everything about that time in my life behind me. Forward ahead 30 years, happily married to my second husband, former AP finds my on-line after an extensive search. We rekindle friendship and then EA. Would love to have PA, but we are 1500 miles apart!

My AP drives truck and is frequently sent long distance. Well, it looks like next month he will be approx. 4 hours drive time away from me. I have told my H that I was going away for a convention and he said no problem. Of course I am planning to be with my AP.

We haven't seen each other in 30 years and I'm a little nervous. I'm older and heavier, but he doesn't seem to care. He has seen recent pictures of me and said that he loves me for who I am and always has.

We are both looking forward to having those few days together. I can't believe it is going to happen. Just had to share my good news and excitement with people who would understand.

CollieAnn