Finally..... LONG

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Registered: 01-21-2010
Finally..... LONG
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Fri, 07-02-2010 - 7:50pm

Hi Everyone....


I have been lurking for a while again...and want to talk so bad...but its hard to find the right words to say what I feel and think and want.


I have a bit of a hot/cold history with one of the owners

Confuzed
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Fri, 07-02-2010 - 8:36pm

I'm probably the very last person on this board who should be doling out advice right now since I just had a d-day.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 06-27-2010
Sat, 07-03-2010 - 6:51am

The other issue is that often times the anticipation is the best part - the flirting the sexual tension...I was just telling my friend last night that I think the slow simmer is often the best part, kwim?


Since your potential AP has reservations, and has pulled back multiple times before, you just have to prepare youself for the fallout.

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Registered: 01-21-2010
Mon, 07-05-2010 - 6:21am

I know that I am planning on something coming up to prevent this from happening....but in the event that it actually does get to happen....I am well prepared.


I went shopping and bought a new bedtime outfit....and some fun extras!

Confuzed
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Registered: 01-21-2010
Wed, 07-07-2010 - 7:59pm

Well.....


I planned for the worst....nothing happening....and everything happened just the way HE worked it all out.

Confuzed
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Registered: 01-21-2010
Sat, 07-10-2010 - 12:09am

So for those of you with MM APs that go in and out of guilt trips, how do you help them deal with the guilt trips.

Confuzed