Finally stole some time w MM!!!

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Registered: 03-29-2004
Finally stole some time w MM!!!
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Fri, 04-09-2004 - 2:43pm
Last night I finally got to spend some time with my MM!

We hadn't seen each other in over a month due to a lot of events happening in his life. We went from a steamy hot every-other-day sex fest, to days on end of seeing each other for several hours in a row, but sex about once per week, to over a month of just talking on the phone. I was getting a little worried he may have had some issues with seeing me, but it just didn't make sense with how he was acting towards me. Now I can lay those fears to rest!

Wow! Last night was incredible. I felt like a sneaking high schooler. He was staying overnight at his mom's house, and I snuck through the house to his room. I had to be all quiet and everything. The funny thing is I didn't lose my virginity till college, so I never had that thrill of sneaking around like that. Funny I had to wait till my late 20s for that!

I posted a thread earlier about the way he uses the word "love" but not in the context of "I love you". But with emphasis on the word love. For example, as we were going at it, I ask him if he likes my ..... He responds, I LOVE your... He kept saying I LOVe this, I LOVE that, probably at least 15 times. I don't know if he is fishing for an "I love YOU" or not. But I'm the type of woman who never says it before the man says it. I don't really care when it actually comes out, if it ever does. Right now, I'm enjoying the moment. I really like what we have. Er, wait, I LOVE what we have.

I found out that our "vow of silence" was broken by him. He told a mutual friend who we knew was suspicious from the get-go. That's a bit dangerous because we know this friend as a business friend, so the gossip-mill could really get out of control. He was so adament before about keeping things quiet, especially with this circle of people. But not the case anymore, it seems. People have to know. Luckily, my husband does not know any of these people. But MM's W does know them. I also think his brother has to know, too...I hung out with MM, the aforementioned friend, and MM's brother.

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Registered: 04-01-2004
Fri, 04-09-2004 - 3:08pm
Happy to read your post --

as for "telling" someone about you -

My MM has told one person - and I could really get into the bad and the good of it -

It's flattering to know he thinks so highly to have told someone but yes scarey -

I will start a seperate post on my feelings about that ...but glad you got some time

Kikki

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Fri, 04-09-2004 - 3:54pm
Yeah, I was really surprised that he told. In the beginning, he said we need to deny, deny, deny to the bitter end. I'm sure he was cornered by the friend and broke down and admitted it. I have more things to say on that topic, so looking forward to your thread.