First "fight"

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Registered: 07-02-2009
First "fight"
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Fri, 08-07-2009 - 8:53pm
After over 2 years with AP, we had our first "fight", disagreement, words..whatever you want to call it. Worst of all, it happened via text. Ugh...but such is the life of an A. You can barely see eachother, much less fight in person :).
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Sat, 08-08-2009 - 1:48am
that's tough stuff. It's so hard when you have a disagreement and you can't see each others faces and you can't hear the tone of voice and you can't talk in real time and get resolution. That would make me crazy. I've had a number of disagreements or whatever with my ap and we always work it out right away, never let it fester. I never did that with my stbx. I can't imagine your current agony as you wait to see him or talk to him and get resolution one way or the other.
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Registered: 05-17-2003
Sat, 08-08-2009 - 9:38pm

Hi,


I'm so sorry you're feeling so uncertain.


If it helps at all, I've been in my A for two years as well and we've had many "disagreements", some through text and some in person. I'm luckier than most, because when my AP's not away working, he's usually ALWAYS with me...thus the opportunity for two methods of arguing!


Every time it happens, I always feel like it's the end and it's going to be over.