first time

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Registered: 01-05-2004
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Mon, 03-15-2004 - 8:27am
I've only posted here a few times but I'm so nervous excited right now that I just had to "tell" someone.

In just a couple of hours MM will be arriving for a few hours of fun. This will be our first time having IC. The butterflies in my stomach are going crazy. I'm so excited about this yet I'm really really nervous. It's been years since I've been with anyone other than H so I worry about how good I'll be. I've got a little extra padding here and there and I know his W is very slim so I worry about what he'll think when he sees me totally nekkid. And to top it off I have very sensitive skin and used a new shaving gel when trim down there and now have a bit of razor burn which is unattractive.

We've been friends for a long time and socialize together regularily so I just worry that if things don't go well it will screw that up.

So wish me luck!

I'm off to shower and get ready for MM.

jw


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Registered: 09-16-2003
In reply to: jwluv
Mon, 03-15-2004 - 5:07pm
luv, you are right. I don't know nothing about your overall situation. All I could do was offer my first thoughts on your post. It didn't really post a good picture of him. I hope you have better luck next time around. I don't mean to unsupportive or anything but your post did indicate that this guy was kind of selfish. Good Luck!
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Registered: 11-19-2003
In reply to: jwluv
Mon, 03-15-2004 - 6:06pm
MM & I haven't had our first time yet, so here is another perspective. It doesn't matter to me if its not perfect the first time. We care for each other very much and so into each other - I would give us time to get it right the next time around, for I know we have wonderful chemistry together.
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Registered: 03-10-2004
In reply to: jwluv
Mon, 03-15-2004 - 8:51pm
Hi jwluv,

The first time is very nerve wracking and exciting at the same time. It sounds like he was just so nervous about being caught that it was difficult for him to really enjoy you and the sex. My MM still gets nervous at any sound inside my house, even though it's been like 4 or 5 times. So don't worry, give him another chance because it sounds like you really care about him and hopefully he feels the same about you. Take care.

ibc

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Registered: 01-10-2004
In reply to: jwluv
Mon, 03-15-2004 - 9:01pm

The first time me and my MM did something. I "pleasured" him. He too was satisfied very quickly, but that didn't bother me cause I enjoyed doing it.


Well, anyway, after we had finished. He left. Right after! He got up, leaned on the dresser & then left. He had this look. I remember telling him, "It's OK.", "Don't feel bad." I thought for sure he regretted it. What else was I too think, but that.


We don't live in the same city, but once he was home. We were on the PC and he im'ed me as usual. He wrote a big THANK YOU. I laughed and was relieved to know everything was OK.


That was almost 4 years ago and we are still with each other.


That goes to show one never knows. I thought for sure he had regretted it, but, he didn't, :)!

 

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Registered: 01-05-2004
In reply to: jwluv
Tue, 03-16-2004 - 7:54am
Thanks so much for sharing your experience hehasmyheart. It sounds very similar to mine. I hope things with my MM turn out as well as things did for you and yours.

luv

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Registered: 09-09-2003
In reply to: jwluv
Tue, 03-16-2004 - 8:02am
Hi Luv, hopefully next time will be better. Sometimes maybe there is so much "anticipation" that one or the other gets overexcited if you know what I mean.

Next time, just slow things down, relax and enjoy yourselves. As you spend more time together and get to know each other intimately, I'm sure it will all work out.

Dusty

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