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| Mon, 04-05-2004 - 12:28pm |
Hi. I'm not sure where to start. I guess I can say I'm really confused. (and that's an understatement. I met my OM at work. He was a consultant on a project I was assigned to. We started talking a lot. He's about 10 years older than me.Spending more and more time together. Right when it seemed like things were really heating up, he was let go. That was seven months ago. We kept in touch, and over time he told me how he really felt. Thing is, we are both married with two kids. I don't know about him but I feel guilty. I love my husband, but I just can't seem to stop communicating with OM. He makes me feel....well I don't know how to describe it. We have never gotten physical, but we have gotten graphic in e-mails. Any adive would be great. I just don't know what to do.
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| Mon, 04-05-2004 - 2:22pm |
The best advice I can give, if you love your husband and haven't let the physical influence your decision, don't allow it to. I would give anything to go back to "monogomous" times. I am always torn, so if you can help don't put yourself through it.
| Mon, 04-05-2004 - 2:43pm |
Please think before you do this. I started an affair a few months ago with a coworker. I was bored and lonely, also curious. I let my guard down and he moved right in. It's been fun, but I love my husband and my kids and I know it's just plain wrong. I feel terrible about it, and just wish it had never happened. My advice is, don't do it unless yu eyes are wide open. You may be okay with it now, but things change, and if you've been reading these boards, they're rarely what they seem. DON'T DO IT!
