The FIRST time with your AP

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Registered: 04-23-2009
The FIRST time with your AP
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Mon, 06-08-2009 - 9:44am

What was the first time like with your AP; were you both nervous and in a hurry, was it the best out of all of the times you’ve been together, how/where did it take place? Did it change your relationship any?


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Registered: 06-13-2006
Fri, 06-12-2009 - 3:18am

Hi Life


I think that he will recommit (sp?) to his marriage. Last week we had a heart to heart and he made the comment, "what if i screwed my marriage up beyond repair and I am wasting the time I could be spending with you?" That said to me: "I need to give it another whole hearted 'go' this week while on vacation."


I really have no illusions about much in life, As being one of those things I don't have any illusions about. He was hers first, and if they can repair the weak spots in their marriage...maybe that's why I was thrust into their lives, and I have served my purpose.


I don't want to lose him, however I DO want him to make the decisions that are going to make him happiest in life.


He will be back on Monday, we shall see if there is any contact between he and I and what kind of contact there is, (ie what he has to say).


iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2009
Fri, 06-12-2009 - 10:39am

I sent you an email –


iVillage Member
Registered: 01-29-2006
Fri, 06-12-2009 - 8:23pm
First time well it was at his private office.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2005
Fri, 06-12-2009 - 9:22pm
Yes it was his private office. That was his first job. The people there werent nosey. If his door was shut. They didnt bother him. Sometimes slip papers under his door. The next job was a different story. We just found different places in his building to do it. He got divorce and bought a house. We used his house. Now he has met somone and its over.:( I miss him like crazy. Ten years with him and now nothing. Really sucks.:(
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Registered: 12-11-2008
Sun, 06-14-2009 - 3:27pm

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Edited 6/20/2009 12:58 am ET by the_other_me
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Registered: 02-03-2009
Thu, 06-18-2009 - 11:01pm
OM...if I could repeat history & excitement of the first time it was like you said.....AMAZING. but unfortunatley it we were both so nervouse, he was unable to get an erection, it was in a 'squad car' on dead dark road...... we had been flirting for proably a couple of years. he and
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Registered: 01-27-2008
Fri, 06-19-2009 - 9:22am

the first time was deep, meaningful and passionate. All our pent up emotions where physically expressed that first time, and in time its got better and better. We both had a tear in our eyes as we both felt that it was the start of never going back. And neither of us to date have looked back since.


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