Five Essential Ingredients....

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Five Essential Ingredients....
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Mon, 07-12-2010 - 11:08pm

I thought it might be fun to share some of the things I read about in "When Good People Have Affairs".

anotherseyes

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Tue, 07-13-2010 - 12:25am

Gosh thats tough huh?


I think I feel all 5 with both but in varying degrees. Safe emotionally with H, more chemistry with AP. Fun with both. Mutual respect- maybe more with AP, easy connections- maybe a tad more with H.


I cant wait for that book to arrive!


Iggy (new moniker courtesy of Bird)

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You are what you consistently do
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Tue, 07-13-2010 - 7:31pm

Ah, see, if you have all five, regardless of how much of each, then you have what it takes to have good chemistry/a good relationship.


For me, it reinforced that time apart from H is very much needed at this point.

anotherseyes

anotherseyes

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Registered: 07-07-2010
Tue, 07-13-2010 - 7:40pm

This is fun!