Four years and I'm out

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2005
Four years and I'm out
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Mon, 02-23-2009 - 8:11pm

Hi all,


For those who remember me, here's an update.


AP and I would have celebrated 4 years in our A in April if I hadn't ended it Friday. Things -- some within our control, some not -- have gotten in the way of our seeing each other as much as we used to, but this last stretch was 5 WEEKS of no "together time," which to me is inexcusable seeing as how we live in the same town.


I was having M problems, and his

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2008
Mon, 02-23-2009 - 11:17pm
Good for you.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2005
Fri, 02-27-2009 - 2:56am

Circe,

I remember you! and while i am glad you made the decision to pull the plug once the ratio shifted, i'm sad because ... well, i remember what you had. and your situation is not so different from mine (almost 4 years, job changes and life changes that erode our time). i can see myself in your position, i can see myself weighing those changes. and i hope when the time comes i can walk away without regret as you have done.

i hope the M situation - or D situation - works out okay for you. and when your AP checks out, another "available" man walks in.

Mrs.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2008
Fri, 02-27-2009 - 8:50am

Hi..you sound like you are doing ok but it still must be hard after 4 years!