FREAKING OUT ... BAD!!!! Need advice.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-27-2010
FREAKING OUT ... BAD!!!! Need advice.
36
Wed, 05-19-2010 - 10:05am

So I went to the dentist yesterday and she mentioned that my gums were bleeding a lot which she said could happen if you're due for your period ... which I'm not, but my last period about 2 weeks ago was much lighter and shorter than normal ... still a day of really heavy bleeding though ... anyway during both my previous pregnancies one of the things that happened to me was that my gums bled almost every time I brushed my teeth ... so I went and bought a test yesterday and took it first thing this am ... it was not the darkest of lines, but there is most definitely a line there ... I can't go get another one or do anything else about it until tomorrow ... but I am obviously freaking out ... so the question is ... do I say anything to him? Why should I have to spend the next 24 + hours freaking out on my own ... but if it's not + then will I have freaked him out for nothing ... and if this is the case he will most certainly run for the hills .... and i don't want to lose him ... What is wrong with me? Here I might be pregnant by a man other than my husband and I'm worried about losing him ... yet I also don't want to spend the next 24 hours dealing with this by myself ...

What should I do???????

Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2010
Mon, 05-24-2010 - 11:01pm
Any news yet?

anotherseyes

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-27-2010
Wed, 05-26-2010 - 9:22pm

Levels went down, started bleeding ... thank you all for your concern. Just waiting for this to run its course ... it's been a rough week. AP has been incredibly supportive, but I'm just waiting for things to get back to normal. As to the comments on safety, I have had issues with my cycle for years and the latest pill i was on I apparently needed to take the same time every day ... which I didn't know ...

Thank you again for your support.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2010
Thu, 05-27-2010 - 8:51am

Whew! That must be a relief after much misery.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-27-2010
Thu, 05-27-2010 - 10:08am
I wish I could say it was a relief ... I know it's the best of all the options but how can one really be relieved about a miscarriage?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-29-2010
Thu, 05-27-2010 - 11:39am
I would be sad too... :-( Sorry you're going through this.

Proud to be a





You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull

Proud to be a





You've

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2010
Thu, 05-27-2010 - 4:24pm

Wow mrm, what a journey you have been on over the last week.

Pages