Freaking out .....

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-23-2010
Freaking out .....
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Tue, 01-26-2010 - 6:22pm

I had zero contact with him for over a week.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-19-2008
Tue, 01-26-2010 - 7:47pm

I learned my lesson and don't do booty calls anymore.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2008
Wed, 01-27-2010 - 8:01am

Oh, I'd go. For me it's not an A until we have IC.

-jana

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-02-2009
Wed, 01-27-2010 - 10:50am

If you already told him you would go, then you should go.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-23-2010
Thu, 01-28-2010 - 4:00pm
The thing I'm struggling with here is that fact that this relationship is based solely on sex.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-14-2009
Thu, 01-28-2010 - 5:20pm

ajay,


All I can say to this is, "FOLLOW YOUR HEART!" If you are having so much doubt and you keep asking yourself why would I go, then don't go. If you don't like that it's all about sex or sex talk...then why subject yourself to it. I'm not bashing cause believe me I completely understand what you are up against. Just listen to what your mind and heart is telling you. We are the only ones that know ourselves the best.


If you do choose to go, please be super careful and don't get caught. D-Days aren't fun at all, I had 2 with the same AP.

cntrygirl03
cntrygirl03
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-14-2009
Thu, 01-28-2010 - 11:44pm

Mom,


Are you talking to me cntrygirl? I'm not married anymore.

cntrygirl03
cntrygirl03
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2008
Fri, 01-29-2010 - 12:51am

"and constantly wondering if he's just in it for the sex."

I think you know he's just in it for the sex.
This could be very damaging to you.
Please think carefully.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-17-2006
Fri, 01-29-2010 - 8:33am

I usually lurk, but I saw this and wanted to post.


If you are feeling conflicted..don't go. If you are not 100% comfortable, don't do it.


He is looking for sex..booty call. He did not ask you out to dinner..he asked you for sex...


Take Care :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-2008
Fri, 01-29-2010 - 11:29am
if your the one who has a married bf who he slip in the house then yes if i post the wrong one i am sorry but if you are the one yes i did
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2008
Fri, 01-29-2010 - 11:43am

??? I'm confused ... to me sex is what A's are all about. If you don't want sex don't have an A. If you're looking for a new H or a BF or a 'relationship,' an A is not the path to take. There are a lot of ppl on here trying to get one thing (an R) by engaging in another (an A) and I don't understand that. I have A's because I want the sex and what goes with that; I certainly would never marry or get into an aboveboard R with them.

Just my .02

-jana

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