All I can say to this is, "FOLLOW YOUR HEART!" If you are having so much doubt and you keep asking yourself why would I go, then don't go. If you don't like that it's all about sex or sex talk...then why subject yourself to it. I'm not bashing cause believe me I completely understand what you are up against. Just listen to what your mind and heart is telling you. We are the only ones that know ourselves the best.
If you do choose to go, please be super careful and don't get caught. D-Days aren't fun at all, I had 2 with the same AP.
??? I'm confused ... to me sex is what A's are all about. If you don't want sex don't have an A. If you're looking for a new H or a BF or a 'relationship,' an A is not the path to take. There are a lot of ppl on here trying to get one thing (an R) by engaging in another (an A) and I don't understand that. I have A's because I want the sex and what goes with that; I certainly would never marry or get into an aboveboard R with them.
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I learned my lesson and don't do booty calls anymore.
Oh, I'd go. For me it's not an A until we have IC.
-jana
If you already told him you would go, then you should go.
ajay,
All I can say to this is, "FOLLOW YOUR HEART!" If you are having so much doubt and you keep asking yourself why would I go, then don't go. If you don't like that it's all about sex or sex talk...then why subject yourself to it. I'm not bashing cause believe me I completely understand what you are up against. Just listen to what your mind and heart is telling you. We are the only ones that know ourselves the best.
If you do choose to go, please be super careful and don't get caught. D-Days aren't fun at all, I had 2 with the same AP.
Mom,
Are you talking to me cntrygirl? I'm not married anymore.
"and constantly wondering if he's just in it for the sex."
I think you know he's just in it for the sex.
This could be very damaging to you.
Please think carefully.
I usually lurk, but I saw this and wanted to post.
If you are feeling conflicted..don't go. If you are not 100% comfortable, don't do it.
He is looking for sex..booty call. He did not ask you out to dinner..he asked you for sex...
Take Care :)
??? I'm confused ... to me sex is what A's are all about. If you don't want sex don't have an A. If you're looking for a new H or a BF or a 'relationship,' an A is not the path to take. There are a lot of ppl on here trying to get one thing (an R) by engaging in another (an A) and I don't understand that. I have A's because I want the sex and what goes with that; I certainly would never marry or get into an aboveboard R with them.
Just my .02
-jana
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