IMAO: you should go. Get good birth control and a morning after pill and condoms. I prefer a Bc I do not have to take everyday and then can't be forgotten,lost,or stolen.
Don't usually post over here, but something to consider (because I was NAIVE and didn't...so I'll pass it along): I had a very short A...had sex one time. It's now been over for 3 months. I've had an incredibly HARD time getting over it.
When it goes physical...into IC...most of us attach our soul to that person. I married young and have been married nearly 20 yrs....I had NO idea how emotionally "attached" that act would make me to OM. My therapist brought that up b/c I couldn't believe the depth of my emotions in such a short time. There's a hormonal release that causes this to happen. How attached to this man do you want to be?
it's only sex for god's sake. would you freak out if you had the prospect of eating a piece of chocolate cake? it doesn't mean he has to give you a ring now, and you're freaking engaged.
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I'm sorry ajayceegirl.
Don't usually post over here, but something to consider (because I was NAIVE and didn't...so I'll pass it along): I had a very short A...had sex one time. It's now been over for 3 months. I've had an incredibly HARD time getting over it.
When it goes physical...into IC...most of us attach our soul to that person. I married young and have been married nearly 20 yrs....I had NO idea how emotionally "attached" that act would make me to OM. My therapist brought that up b/c I couldn't believe the depth of my emotions in such a short time. There's a hormonal release that causes this to happen. How attached to this man do you want to be?
Thanks hardhabit... you've given me a lot to think about!
Ah, now I talked to him, and I'm pretty sure this won't be happening.
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it's only sex for god's sake. would you freak out if you had the prospect of eating a piece of chocolate cake? it doesn't mean he has to give you a ring now, and you're freaking engaged.
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