In the 'friend' zone

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Registered: 12-31-1969
In the 'friend' zone
Wed, 09-19-2012 - 9:46am
That's where we currently are. Still see each other every day, communication from him is huge, all going well.

But ohhhhhh, I want him soooooo bad!! It's torture because I just love kissing him and at present that is not what we are about. Still a very emotional affair though in my opinion. Maybe I miss the physical more than I thought I would. Have to get it out of my system before I pounce on him, although secretly I think he'd quite like that :smileyhappy:
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Registered: 01-15-2007
Wed, 09-19-2012 - 10:25am

It's so hard, isn't it?  XAP still won't see me face to face - says he doesn't want all the feelings to come rushing back.  It irritates me - when he calls he says he'd really like to see me anyways but then doesn't follow through.  I don't know how to move to the friend zone either, but feel our R is worth that.  I interpret his actions to mean he doesn't though.

Aside from wanting to pounce him :smileytongue:, how are you doing emotionally with it?  Are you feeling strong about remaining in the friend zone?

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Registered: 10-03-2007
Wed, 09-19-2012 - 1:57pm

You might want to  ' label' it as ' friends' but IMHO, you are deep in emotional affair.

Friends dont want to kiss, its not a torture to be not able to hug/kiss

When you turn to them for emotional stuff and there is sexual attraction , its not friends.

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Registered: 01-15-2007
Fri, 09-21-2012 - 8:48pm

I had to laugh at your "oops".  How is the aftermath?