Friends with the wife?
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Friends with the wife?
| Sun, 04-25-2004 - 9:38pm |
I saw this discussion further down on the board and wondered if you all would mind revisiting it for a newbie's sake. Are any of you friends with your MM's wife? As I said in my first post, we (the three of us) do a lot of things together. Go out to dinner, cook at home, movies, bowling, etc. We are involved in many church functions together. We're even going on a vacation together. It's a very comfortable situation. They aren't overly affectionate with each other, but they're not distant either. I like this woman. Does that make sense to anyone else? I feel like we're a breath away from everything being out in the open. I would never take that on myself to do, and I would never ask him to either. Plus, I think she wouldn't want to know for certain. But aside from the time he and I spend alone together, some of my best times are when the three of us are hanging out together or we're doing something with all the kids (his three and my one -- all teens). Anyone else?

know I exist and that is the way I want to keep it
I haven't ever seen her in person and the only photo I have seen
of her was taken 7 years ago
It is hard enough sharing a man with this woman whom she
thinks she trusts - let alone being her friend and betraying
her that way as well
I know what I do is wrong - but It would be way too hard to
have that sort of relationship - I am one of the few who also
DO NOT work with MM - he and I met randomly as if by FATE -
Kikki
deedee
We don't spend a lot of time together because they live about 2.5 hours away, but this weekend we are going away together. He is in email contact with my husband as well, as they are friends because the W and I are friends.
The upside of this arrangement is that I never have to hide the fact that I'm calling. I know her work hours (though she doesn't really know I know her schedule) and I call when she's not home to talk to him. Then if it ever comes up, he can say that I was calling for her.
The thing that sucks is that he can't really call me because he doesn't have the built-in excuse I do. He and my H don't talk on the phone.
This is all very new to me, as our A started in February. We've been together three times since then; haven't quite made it all the way but eventually.......
KC
KC